So, in a chatroom on the network I run, people were talking about how many people they'd... in some more sexual way than making out, been with.

So, it came time for my number and I told them.
24 total, 16 of which included penetration. (So, 8 were just blowjob, 16 a combination of).

Jokingly, a few of them called me a whore or a slut... but I started to wonder.

For someone who's been active for 4 years or so, 4 and a half really... is 16 over 24 a slut to you?

Just curious.

(If it makes any difference I'm 20, but I donno if it does or not).

- Kev

EDIT: Also, I've only been in a relationship with 4 of them. Only one was a hookup though.

I've been with 2 guys.

edit: let me elaborate on that one...I'm only 17, and I haven't picked the best guys so far so I'm not exactly out doing everybody right now because I hate feeling like a slut. I don't think you're a whore, I just think you know what you want.

Definitely. But who can blame you ?

I think that for the most part it's not the numbers that say if you are a slut or not. I think it's more about the situations and the people involved. If it's a bunch of random people you don't know, I would be more inclined to say that's slutty behavior. But, if it is in relationships or at least people you know, like a friends with benefits thing, it's different. Those are my opinions on it anyways.

That's my general feeling, and yea, only one is a hookup.

Well there you go...You're not a slut at all.

I'm twice the slut you are by that theory..Guy number 1 was some random dude I met on myspace...guy number 2 is 13 years older than me....I'm like super slut?

I'm 20 and only had sex with one girl who was my gf for 3 years from 16-19. But we had a whole lot of sex...

Yes, you are ;P

But well, who cares?

It's your life and your body, do what ever you want!

"Slut" is only a word.

hehe, well, I'm not really concerned about it really... I just wanted to see what the spread was on people's opinions on the matter.

I've always found it fascinating when someone calls someone else a whore, because I wonder where the definition is for them.

If you behave responsibly (ie: birth control, condoms), fuck all you want. It's fun. Why deny it?
I voted "whore". It doesn't matter, sex isn't a bad thing, and those who say it is have been brainwashed into prudery.

I lol'd about that.

how about this one ? :
"a whore has sex with everyone,
a bitch has sex with everyone but you"

seriously, i don't think it matters if it's a hook-up or a relation as long as you take basic precautions. i'd rather be a slut than a prude.

I don't quite see the humor.

guy + guy = no baby

Huh. Good point. The general femininity of the post had me thinking kvidell is female.

My mistake.

No babies?! ;_; Now what will I tell my boyfriend?

poor you

Ah, no worries.

And damn, I come off femme online?

I always thought I had that under control in real life ;P

I vote none of the above.

I think you are a young person with a possibly unhealthy (or maybe just sophmoric) desire to draw attention from strangers to your sexual activity.

Jaded much? :-P

If you want to pull the attention whore card, that's fine I suppose.

I had considered that as a possible response to the thread before I posted it, but decided that's just the way the internet goes, so went ahead with my plan.

I had also sort of hoped I'd explained the mild curiosity in figuring out what other people's thoughts were on where the line is drawn on the topic.

Oh well.

Besides, if I wanted to be an attention whore and bring people's attention to that for that reason, I would've posted the poll on Craigs List, not on a discussion forum with level headed conversationalists.