Finding love! - Page 2

latecomer · 06-23-2007

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Originally Posted by UbuntuniX

Unbelievably, though, my plan did work. I skated insanely and almost killed myself, and two girls asked me for my phone number.

You call that a plan?

Still, seems to have worked.

FuturePilot · 06-23-2007

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Originally Posted by UbuntuniX

Well, I decided not to go for it. I think she'd make a better friend.

Unbelievably, though, my plan did work. I skated insanely and almost killed myself, and two girls asked me for my phone number.

I'd never find anyone that easily.....
No one wants me.

Big Dave · 06-23-2007

1) Don't worry about finding a girlfriend - they always come along at the moment you're least expecting it.

2) Be confident in yourself (even if you can't see anything to be confident about). Women love somebody who has confidence.

3) Don't be a dick.

latecomer · 06-24-2007

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Originally Posted by Big Dave

1) Don't worry about finding a girlfriend - they always come along at the moment you're least expecting it.

Especially when you're already involved with someone, I tend to find.

Anyone else had that experience?

Jeremiah · 06-24-2007

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Originally Posted by latecomer

Especially when you're already involved with someone, I tend to find.

Anyone else had that experience?

Indeed. As soon as you find someone, two more come along. Always.

chiefbutz · 06-24-2007

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Originally Posted by Jeremiah

Indeed. As soon as you find someone, two more come along. Always.

Makes it worse when they are that someone's best friends too...

Tepidbroth · 08-03-2007

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Originally Posted by Jimmyfj

Well - For a start I'd say that I know how you feel - I've been "buried" in the geek-world for about three years now - Although I do turn off my computer from time to time in order to socialize with other people. I've known a woman for nine years and we are close on getting together now so I guess that's my clue to turn down the geek-stuff and start living my live away from the computer

You would abandon your computer for a female? Traitor!!!

UbuntuniX · 08-07-2007

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Originally Posted by Tepidbroth

You would abandon your computer for a female? Traitor!!!

Yes.

chiefbutz · 08-08-2007

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Originally Posted by UbuntuniX

Yes.

Heretic!!!! Traitor! Blasphemer!! jk

Adamant1988 · 08-10-2007

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Originally Posted by UbuntuniX

Having been a nerd for the past two years or so, I haven't been with a girl that entire time.

It's been so long. Any tips?

Don't actively seek one out, just to have someone? I find that the people who often have the greatest amounts of relationship problems are the ones who feel they need to be in a relationship, and they force it on themselves to find a suitable partner.

While I can certainly understand that you WANT a partner, if you're looking for any kind of a lasting relationship actively seeking out a partner just to have one will probably be counter-productive in the long run. If you just want laid, I'm sure there are some bars, clubs, or other social scenes where it's just not difficult at all to find someone to have sex with.

Just be careful if you're just looking for sex. STDs are bad M'kay?

hairy_Palms · 08-11-2007

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Just be careful if you're just looking for sex. STDs are bad M'kay?

all is well as long as you remember to 'wrap up well'

Star_Child2016 · 08-15-2007

all I have to say is be yourself always.... if they don't like you for who you are then it'll never work... cuz in the end you are yourself... and you'll be known as fake... that's not good... lol... maybe I shoul follow my own advice eh?

06-23-2007	#23 (permalink)
Big Dave Vote Conservative! Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: East Sussex, UK Posts: 513	Re: Finding love! 1) Don't worry about finding a girlfriend - they *always* come along at the moment you're least expecting it. 2) Be confident in yourself (even if you can't see anything to be confident about). Women love somebody who has confidence. 3) Don't be a dick.
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08-15-2007	#32 (permalink)
Star_Child2016 I'm only being me... Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Tacoma, WA Posts: 173	Re: Finding love! all I have to say is be yourself always.... if they don't like you for who you are then it'll never work... cuz in the end you are yourself... and you'll be known as fake... that's not good... lol... maybe I shoul follow my own advice eh?
	An ye harm none, do what ye will Blessed Be