alot of the teens saying they are bi are younger than most around the age of 12 or 13 i dont think they are really bi they are more curious however im bi and im 17 and i know for a fact i am the older teens have more of a grip on what they are attracted to

^^^Very true. I agree with you one that. but I have had more girlfriends then I have boyfriends. plus I think some 16 year olds such as myself have a good grip on what the world is like and they know what they are at this point in their lives.

I feel the exact same way. i haven't had many relationships (like 2-3 but only 1 that i'd actually count as being real), and i've always been straight. but for a long time i've felt like there's some part of me that could be... well... into girls. that used to really freak me out. i used to always think "omg, thats not normal, dont be stupid, dont even think its a possibility". but lately i've been questioning myself, thinking abt the actual possibilities. and, even recently, i got soo confused over it. i got to the point where i decided i'd be cool with wateva it is, but the not knowing thing really got under my skin. then, a couple days ago, i told myself "wat the heck am i worried abt?" i mean i've never liked labels, so y should this be any different? and its not. its just abt me, being true to myself and having the freedom to be with anybody that makes me happy. thats all that matters. it doesn't matter 'what' a person is, but who they are, and how they make me feel. i'm pretty sure i'd still mostly date guys, but now, well i'm open to anything, as long as i feel it in my heart.

and yeah, the thought gives me butterflies too for some reason, hehe

Lol good that you could relate but I was saying that because I was confused back then now I'm not confused now I'm sure.

I've bin confuse about my self since I was in 6th grade and that was a long time ago