some friends would stay your friends but would try to steer you away from the homosexual lifestyle due to their religious beliefs, etc. and that just creates complete chaos. no offense to Christians, I'm Christian too. but sometimes I really don't know how to deal with homosexual topics when they're discussed because whatever I say will somehow be critisized by either party.

I think a person knows when they are bisexual because they would see that they are attracted to both girls and guys. it doesn't matter what your parent say because they are not you and they do not know how you feel. I knew this girl her name was Amber and she was bi she went out with guys but also have realtionships with girls so I think she knew.

People are born bisexual, just like people are born hetero or homosexual.

Yeah, and if you realy are Bi, then that is your business. Don't let others try and run your life, or bring you down just because you are different. you are a person, and have feelings. always remember that.

thanks guys you rock ^^
by the way crazychica that girl Amber um does she happen to live in Ohio??

they aren't ur friends if they can't except you for who u r, and ur not being a great friend by not telling them,.. u should tell them. If there ur friends they'll understand.

I know but right now isnt such a good time to tell them I'm not ready to tell some of them. I told only my close friends first

if you're mature enough to know you're bisexual, you're mature enough not to write like that. So, what my advice to you is to grow up and stop telling your parents everything.

I just recently found out that one of my female cousins are gay. She was really scared to tell my family at first, all of them being real big in the bible and all. But we all excepted “everyone but my grandma, because she still don’t know” her for who she is.

So I think the people who truly love you, will except your decision and be their for you. No one should be ashamed of who they are, because no one has a right to say their better then another.

well i goin to kinda repeat my self cuz of the other thread that is up here...
well ok...let me help u cuz i am bi...well if u kinda like check girl or girlz out then that usally means u r lez or bi...if u have a crush or feelin for someone of the same sex as u then u could either be bi or lez...but it also depends on your age...like if u r like 14 and younger then u r prolly not lez or bi but wounderin...but if u r older then that then that usally means u r bi or lez

i have rly been thinkin bout this lately becuz i started havin feelings for a girl... she and i r rly good friends but i cant get over this crush, and i no i still like guys bcuz i have had boyfriends and i still get feelings for guys and stuff but how would my friends and family react if they found out?

being bisexual i think is a choice and i do think that i does depend on ur religion and since i am a christian were not supposed to be bi but i hav no problem with others that r one so i dont really care but i just know that im not one

actions are choices. not feelings. you can't choose how u feel.

I am bi and when I told all of my friends they left me and I was all alone it sucks yes but I am only 16 and next year I will be going to the junior college so maybe it wont be so bad right? When I told my parents my mom couldnt look at me for about six monthes and she still hasnt looked at me and my dad disowned me literally papers and all. I am so alone and it sucks. Has anyone else been like this??

hey well i'm bi and i told my friends and they seem cool with it, parents on tha other hand NOT tellin right now...

I think its the fact on where I live I live in california in the 707 area code. and they are very single minded.

I don't like labeling.. I just feel like I'm free to be with anyone I choose to be with. It's just that I've so far only liked guys, I've never felt anything towards girls but still I have that feeling that I really really could feel something if she was the right one.. so I don't know.. But the thought gives me butterflies

Well I'm bi and i told alot of my friends and they seem pretty ok with it i think most just kinda knew i was parents and sister on the other hand im so not telling them till i meet the right person cause i already know how they will react and it wont be very pretty as for my other family members like my uncles and stuff only my gay uncle knows which is cool cause he doesnt care and i hate labeling to it sucks like i didnt tell anyone at my school until after i graduated

I don't like labels they bother me the way I look at it I like who I like