ok, im 14 and im in grade 9. there is this girl who i like...ill call her "C". and her best friend...ill call her "x". anyways, me and c seemed to like each other, and everone in 8th grade could tell. but me and her best friend, x, didnt really get along. anyways, c always asked me to dance at dances when x wasnt around. i would be on the other side of the dance, and she'd walk all the way over with dance with me. but me and her friend still didnt get along. then it all came down to me and x getting into a fight. we became mostal enimies, i swear. it seemed to c that I was putting her in the position "me or x" like she had to choose. she ignored me after that, but i reall liked her and i wasnt gonna lose her, even if x was still in the picture. so every now and then, i said "hey" and stuff, and then would soon pick up full conversations again. anyways, on a trip to san fransisco, me and c and my 2 friends were put in the same carpool...x was sick. it was kind of awkward, even when we got stuck sitting next to each other. but by the time we got there, we were talking, laughing, making jokes, etc. on the way back, it was night, and people were falling asleep and stuff. she was whispering stuff to me, and we joked and laughed quitly. then the trip ended. we were going off to HS now. we went to a catholic school, and for girls, they had to go to an all girl high school, and guys to an all guy HS. but we still had dances together, and plays and stuff. x went to a public HS, and c to the all-girls, and me to the all-guys. so x and c would probably lose contact. anyways, homecoming came up. i asked c.....it seemed like a yes...but then she said she couldnt make it. i was bummed but I understood.
so everyone thought she was gonna ask me to there school's homecoming. i was ready. finally it was a week b4 there homecoming, and i felt like i was being tortured. i thought "is she gonna ask me or wut?!?" so my friend decided to call her and see. he said she asked another guy.......my heart sank. i felt like i was gonna puke, like i was gonna explode. i didnt understand.....why? i nkow it was her choice on who to ask...but i was almost positive it would be me. she flirted with me. she gave me subtile hints that said "we'll go out, but not till x is outta the picture." i did my waiting, only for her to ask another guy (they arent dating, they just went to homecoming together). so why did she keep me hanging on? do u think shes "saving" me for future date dances? does she like me at all? if she didnt, why did she keep me hanging?!? help plz!!!!

Its hard to say just what happened. I "think" should has a place for you some where, just give it time and you will know . Keep talking to her, i'm sure she'll ask you to something.

Marc

thanks! arg, i really like her. its been almost a year.....

With my current gf, it tooks years . I started hitting on her in 7th grade, we started going out a few months ago (11th grade now).

yep, thats marc 4 ya

you guys. it's a girl thing. marc, that is really really sad. "i started hitting on her in the 7th grade" but yet you've fucked other girls?! get it right. now kid. no clue what your name is but she'll get over him. you're 14 for fucks sake. so on this topic i say move on. find another girl that you like and start going out with her. if it's meant to be it'll happen but you can spend all your time dwelling on one girl. sides if you go out with another girl she might just realize she wants you or she might be one of those girls that wants what she can't have but again you're 14. move on. it's one girl. don't waste your time on what might've been. look at what can come to be.

I guess your all kinda right and this is only my opinion.

Now theres too sides to this situation you can either wait and hope she will ask you out or you ask her or wotever and risk being hurt even more by her. (She may never ask)

or

You can pick yourself up, move on, find another girl and be happy again and if "c" wants you then it will be up 2 her to come to you cos by reading what you have written you are the one that has done all the running about.

Its easy to fall in love and hard to get out of, just dont waste your time on a girl that may never want you.

It was late when I made that post . The part I left out was my best friend was going with her, then should moved somewhere else and we lost contact. A few months ago she walked into my job and she was single so we because bf/gf.