sum where around march, i met this gal... we'll call her Cherry.. she's my skoolmate... we got along and all... she keeps saying i'm cute and all... but 1 day... i found out that she likes me... and i do like her too... and when i confronted her bout that... we just got too shy to even talk to each other.... and we never talked to each other much anymore... it's like we're not even friends... every time i see her, she'll try to look away from me.... i dunno whether is she shy or she doesn't likes me... 1 day, i found out that she has a bf already and i was so jealous.... i cudn't sleep every night.... it was like that till the end of the year... i joined my friends band for a performance... but wat i didn't know is she's playing bass for us... which means she's in the band... and we got along again... that time, she broke up with her bf... and we've been flirting around again.... then... 1 day, when she asked me who i liked.. i lied to her that i liked another gal... which is her fren... but of coz i still like Cherry... i've tot that if she got jealous... that'll mean she likes me.... and it worked! she kept telling me how bad the other gal was and all... so 1 day, i decided to confront her again... i asked her if she likes me... she asked me y.... then she walked away.... but i stopped her and say... because i like u... then she pat my head and say... yes... then she skipped away...... we talked on the fone that nite... and i asked her out the next day... we went to the mall... with another 3 frens... a couple and a single(boi, also Cherry's best fren)... we went straight for the movies... we cuddle, hugged and all... but we didnt kissed... after that.... we met another fren of hers... and she joined in... then she doesn't give anymore attention to me.... i'm childish and started to get frustrated coz of that..... i was really pissed off coz she wouldnt even talk to me.... so i walked away and left them there.... i turned off my mobile too... i was so pissed at my self... and her... i foned her that nite... and i asked bout that... she said " i've gave u attention already.. but i dun show it" i dun undestand dat... and i asked her if it was ok i were acting childish... she said "no biggie"... yea right! she foned her fren and told her fren all bout me the whole nite.... no biggie huh? i've tot that if i can stand her for lil more.. it'll be ok... so the next day, band practise... she didn't really talk to me... on the next day.... it was our performance.... we did quite ok... but i did a surprise to make it up to her.. i joined another band and dedicated a somg - "i'd do anything" by simple plan to her... well... she liked it and all... but the next day, i left for my home town... it was skool hols...we chat over the internet all day... we got back together... but she still doesnt commit to me.. i mean.. she still doesnt wan to be my gf.... she said she'll haf to think bout it... and 1 day... i went all the way from my hometown alone to her place to give her a present.... simple plan's latest album... she loved simple plan and i noe it... but she said... "get over me ok?"... i was so shocked.... that nite... i cudn't sleep..... i had a hard time trying to forget her... and 1 day..... i visited her blog... she was dam furious and wrote all bout me... she insulted me and all.... say i bullshyt alot... and say all my jokes are irritating... and at the end of it she wrote "PS - if u think who i'm talking about is u, CHANGE PLS!!!! bloody hell" WTF!!!! that was really a shock... all my frens fone me up and asked wats wrg with me... sum also fought with me.... i was dam angry... and now still... but half of me still likes her and wants her back.... i was stupid and apologized to her.... i let in to her... i just dun wanna lose a good band member... and i dun wan her to hate me..... but i STILL HATE HER!!!!!!! i dunno wat to do... and now she's crazy over sum guy and i'm a little jealous...... i feel like i cant do anything..... i wished that i could hold her in my arms once again and kiss her in the cinema like last time..... i missed having sumbody that cares bout me and all.... maybe i'm just not meant to be loved.... coz i'm a punk kid.... i dunno wat to do now.... i feel like i can kill my self everytime i thinked bout it..... guys... pls help me..............!!!!!!

Well you need to get over it hun. Sometimes things don't work out even if it's a short period of time. Try and focus on someone else to get over her. That might help you out a little. And if she wants you to change YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TO! You shouldn't have to change for anyone, they should love you for who you are and nothing more. And since she can't do that she's not worth your troubles hun.

i'd wish i could get over her.... but.. everytime i try to.. i'll think that maybe if i do sth.. she'll accept me again... coz... i've never felt so much love in my entire live... and i dun wanna lose it... u shud noe? sum one who always fone u after skool.. asking how're u and all... and when you're sick... she gets dam worried and all... i've never been loved... my parents spend too much time working and seldom spend time with me... i've never felt love in my entire live except for those days with her.... now she's goin around telling people how childish, nosy and bullshyts about me..... which makes me very angry..... coz sum of them isn't true.... i admit i'm kinda childish... i love to fool around and all... but like nosy and bullshyt... she says my jokes makes her angry and all... it isn't true.... and all of my frens is buying her stories.... man.... i just wanna slap her... but i still wan her to love me.....

I know it's hard hun. But you can't just latch on to the first person who loves you like that. There will be others you know. It's not the end. :P I'm sure if you keep thinking about that it will help you get over her. But I think pestering her about this whole issue will make her more angry at you. Sorry to say that, but I think that's what's going to happen. I wish you the best of luck hun.

yeah man you need to just move on - gather up your friends and go out some places bowling, cinema etc have a laugh put some fun back in your life.

I know it hurts when some one you feel so strongly for just goes out of your life. It hurts real bad and makes you feel like you have nothing, but you do, all you have to do is reach inside you and find it.

on the subject of changing so she likes u again - this is a no way simply because she should love you for who you really are, and not for who she wants you to be.

i think thats all -
Remember you just need to pick yourself back up and in no time at all you will have yourself a new g/f.

Wow....... kind of like me!!!!! except I moved and left him. I Have a new BF and he is so jelous I hate it.