Sex before marriage? - Page 2

yw37 · 02-14-2006

as lots of people have said already, I believe that if you're in a stable & committed relationship, and that you & your partner both understand what may or may not happen after you have sex - once you have a mutual understanding of all the circumstances etc, I think it would be ok to have sex if both agreed and stuff. if not, wait after you get married - it's safer, although it's going to be a long wait.

Mandy1121 · 02-15-2006

If you have the will power to wait than thats awesome. But Im sure alot of people don't have it.

degrassi_luver2006 · 02-15-2006

Well Ive had sex already so my answer is a no

rain_queen · 02-17-2006

I believe that if you love someone . . . then you can show it by having sex. But just make you that you won't regret it.

saitorul · 02-19-2006

I don't, just use a condom if you want to have sex.

degrassi_crazy40000 · 02-19-2006

i am okay with it before marriage.

crazychica · 02-20-2006

I will wait for sex after marriage, but I have no problem with those people who believe in sex before marriage as long as I don't have to!

brianhut90 · 02-20-2006

Wait untill marriage. No better gift you can give your future partner than your virginity.

Jenni78 · 04-20-2006

I think it is crazy, i sure dont want o be married to some one who sucks in the sack. And besides if you marry someone who has already had sex, it really dont make no sence anyways.

Diya12 · 04-21-2006

I believe everyone should be married before having sex because why do u think their's teen pregnancy and the problem with HIV/aids and different social dieases going around because guys and girls want to be older then their age having sex before their time and besides i feel u have to be mentally and physically ready for sex

atf487 · 04-21-2006

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diya12

I believe everyone should be married before having sex because why do u think their's teen pregnancy and the problem with HIV/aids and different social dieases going around because guys and girls want to be older then their age having sex before their time and besides i feel u have to be mentally and physically ready for sex

We have teen pregnancy because people don't know how to use a fucking condom, and birth control pills. And with the availability of the morning after pill, you have to want to get pregnant. Also, if you're afraid of getting pregnant, just go oral.

Personally, sex at any age is fine with me, as long as people know the risks, wear a rubber (not a trojan) and make sure it doesn't break. Sex isn't as big a deal as people make it out to be. As a recommendation, I don't think you should wait till you're married. You need practice, and as the old saying goes, why would you buy a car without a test drive?

Degrassi Queen19 · 04-21-2006

I was born out of wedlock so it's never been an issue for me. Personally I want to wait but if I feel I am ready before marriage then I'll do it because I love my boyfriend and I've been with him for 3 years.

r0x0r · 04-22-2006

I'm waiting.

But if the guy is right, I'd consider it. I'm older and smarter now. I will say I have an exception: that would be when I'm in a serious relationship that will result in marriage (ie, moving in with each other, have been dating for over a year)

ShadowRanger · 04-23-2006

no more sex untill marriage for me

kdivine98 · 06-17-2006

i think that theres some things that are right for some people and other things that aren't I for one am against sex before marriage but that doesn't mean that i think that other people who do have sex before they're married are terrible people.

chaoticxx · 06-21-2006

It depends if you're ready or not, really.

Haha, sounds like hide and seek. But really. Some people don't feel mature enough and some people just don't believe until after marriage but some other people are fifth graders doing it on the back of the school bus. It really depends on the personality.

lil_carpenter · 07-02-2006

i am not sure... maybe if i meet the right person...

peaceonearth · 07-04-2006

This is a hard topic! In the end, it's all up to the individual and what they're comfortable with! If they want to have sex before marriage, and it's consensual (and not with, like, kids or something), then I say go for it. Personally, it's not for me, but everyone's different.

jenny232 · 07-04-2006

I think it's a persons own decision.......

mannyxsantosx · 07-04-2006

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Originally Posted by Mandy1121

If you have the will power to wait than thats awesome. But Im sure alot of people don't have it.

I agree completely

02-19-2006	#25 (permalink)
saitorul Discussion starter Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Austin, Texas Posts: 77	I don't, just use a condom if you want to have sex.
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02-19-2006	#26 (permalink)
degrassi_crazy40000 Discussion starter Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: kentucky Posts: 78	i am okay with it before marriage.
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04-21-2006	#30 (permalink)
Diya12 Eligible for a custom title Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Brooklyn.Ny Posts: 142	I believe everyone should be married before having sex because why do u think their's teen pregnancy and the problem with HIV/aids and different social dieases going around because guys and girls want to be older then their age having sex before their time and besides i feel u have to be mentally and physically ready for sex
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04-23-2006	#34 (permalink)
ShadowRanger Commentator Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 44	no more sex untill marriage for me
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07-04-2006	#39 (permalink)
jenny232 Interested participant Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 22	hmmm.... I think it's a persons own decision.......

02-14-2006	#21 (permalink)
yw37 Interested participant Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 18	as lots of people have said already, I believe that if you're in a stable & committed relationship, and that you & your partner both understand what may or may not happen after you have sex - once you have a mutual understanding of all the circumstances etc, I think it would be ok to have sex if both agreed and stuff. if not, wait after you get married - it's safer, although it's going to be a long wait.

02-15-2006	#22 (permalink)
Mandy1121 Interested participant Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 18	If you have the will power to wait than thats awesome. But Im sure alot of people don't have it.

02-15-2006	#23 (permalink)
degrassi_luver2006 Commentator Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Jamaica Posts: 47	Well Ive had sex already so my answer is a no

02-17-2006	#24 (permalink)
rain_queen Interested participant Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 21	I believe that if you love someone . . . then you can show it by having sex. But just make you that you won't regret it.

02-20-2006	#27 (permalink)
crazychica Commentator Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 35	I will wait for sex after marriage, but I have no problem with those people who believe in sex before marriage as long as I don't have to!

02-20-2006	#28 (permalink)
brianhut90 Interested participant Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 20	Wait untill marriage. No better gift you can give your future partner than your virginity.

04-20-2006	#29 (permalink)
Jenni78 Discussion starter Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Tn Posts: 67	I think it is crazy, i sure dont want o be married to some one who sucks in the sack. And besides if you marry someone who has already had sex, it really dont make no sence anyways.

04-21-2006	#32 (permalink)
Degrassi Queen19 Star Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New York Posts: 77	I was born out of wedlock so it's never been an issue for me. Personally I want to wait but if I feel I am ready before marriage then I'll do it because I love my boyfriend and I've been with him for 3 years.

04-22-2006	#33 (permalink)
r0x0r Eligible for a custom title Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Earth. I've been all over. Posts: 334	I'm waiting. But if the guy is right, I'd consider it. I'm older and smarter now. I will say I have an exception: that would be when I'm in a serious relationship that will result in marriage (ie, moving in with each other, have been dating for over a year)

06-17-2006	#35 (permalink)
kdivine98 Interested participant Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 20	i think that theres some things that are right for some people and other things that aren't I for one am against sex before marriage but that doesn't mean that i think that other people who do have sex before they're married are terrible people.

06-21-2006	#36 (permalink)
chaoticxx Discussion starter Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 69	It depends if you're ready or not, really. Haha, sounds like hide and seek. But really. Some people don't feel mature enough and some people just don't believe until after marriage but some other people are fifth graders doing it on the back of the school bus. It really depends on the personality.

07-02-2006	#37 (permalink)
lil_carpenter Eligible for a custom title Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 898	i am not sure... maybe if i meet the right person...

07-04-2006	#38 (permalink)
peaceonearth Interested participant Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 20	This is a hard topic! In the end, it's all up to the individual and what they're comfortable with! If they want to have sex before marriage, and it's consensual (and not with, like, kids or something), then I say go for it. Personally, it's not for me, but everyone's different.