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11-03-2007
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| Banned Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Florida
Posts: 209
|  Not sure what i Want I have been out of a relationship with a girl that I thought I would be with for a really long time and the aftermath of everything that has happened between us makes me undecided. I think I want to give another shot at the "lovey dovey' crap cause I really like being connected with a person and it is a great feeling, but at the same time , im a dog when it comes to women and would sometimes prefer to be a 'swinger' . While I struggle to understand what I want, nights sometimes get really lonely, sleepless, and while everyone is out and not on the internet like id hope, im in my room contemplating this over and over...  |
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11-04-2007
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| Administrator  Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Dublin, Ireland
Posts: 605
| Re: Not sure what i Want You are thinking too much about it. You miss being part of a couple but that's not a good reason to get involved in another relationship. If you feel you are not at a place in your life to commit to someone then just have fun. If all your friends are in couples then find some new friends who aren't. Get involved in events where you will meet people but don't do it with romance in mind. Just have fun and get over feeling lonely. I think thats your biggest problem at the moment. Just my two cents worth  |
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11-05-2007
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| Stirrer Of Shit  Join Date: May 2007 Location: Oahu
Posts: 3,598
   | Re: Not sure what i Want Quote:
I think its only a certain breed of people who will never be satisfied in their relationships. I even think its GENETIC to be dysfunctional, lonely, sleepless, and stuck in a room by yourself. Huh?  | |
| Eric "For whoever habitually suppresses the truth in the interests of tact will produce a deformity from the womb of his thought." -Sir Basil H. Liddel-Hart http://self-composed.com | ||
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11-06-2007
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| Banned Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Florida
Posts: 209
| Re: Not sure what i Want Quote:
 Although I would like to add that A. Relationship , no plurality in that mentality B. Loneliness cant be genetic or being stuck in a room by my lonesome, IT JUST Might be environmental though . C. No need to provide link to other thread, Believe it or not I have memory to a certain degree and D. Your still gross for eating Sauerkraut Last edited by hmarroqu : 11-06-2007 at 09:51 PM. | |
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11-07-2007
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| Stirrer Of Shit Join Date: May 2007 Location: Oahu
Posts: 3,598
| Re: Not sure what i Want Actually I do think some people are more predisposed that others to depend on other's attention or recognition to feel right about themselves. But I was just giving you a hard time. As for relationship advice - if you are under 30, you should be taking any relationship seriously enough to worry about it this much. |
| Eric "For whoever habitually suppresses the truth in the interests of tact will produce a deformity from the womb of his thought." -Sir Basil H. Liddel-Hart http://self-composed.com | |
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