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Originally Posted by delilahjed44  Hi Daquan..
been there done that..more than several times actually as my mother could not get her feet grounded, she was persistent in re-locating. It never prospered myself at all. One time a rather big tall gal became my friend in junior high. She started picking on me one day ( out of the blue ) I was like holy cow...whats up with this broad..
We were sitting in choir one afternoon and she began to repeatedly punch me in the arm..well I was petite and frail..after two hits I almost came out of my chair..Now for some odd reason I was pre-occupied ( go figure )..she hit me and knocked my out of deep thought and back into existence. That disturbed me terribly so I took my fist and slammed it into her arm as hard as I could. She was mystified..just sat there staring at me..then announced to me that I was to be slayed later after choir. Let me tell you..thats when I had my first panic attack..I was dead after music class.
We made our exit and she never said a word to me...just gave me dirty looks and continued derogatory remarks through the coming week. So that was one for me..but I had been through several of those lil episodes in my life. I dont think its taboo to many of us at all..
Sherri |
Hi!
Yeah, there's a little girl at the school who also tourments and insults my little buddy - the one who admires me a lot. She's in the same classroom as he. But she's tutored by another person, not me. I don't want to tutor her.
Last week he got mad because she was playing a game and he wasn't. He flatly refused to read for a while. But the coordinator and myself were able to get him back into reading with me. My theory is the only reason that he did that is because the girl went to get a game first. I didn't see it because I was in the mens' room.
The following day, the girl was just being a total brat, putting him down and saying insulting things to him like; "You can even read. I'm better than you. You'll never be as good as me." The boy didn't seem to be bothered by it, but I certainly was! I asked her not to say those things, but she just won't stop.
There was a spinning globe in the library and the boy wanted to look at it. He had it first. Long story short, she just kept grabbing it from him! And she never once asked him to let her use it!! I just had enough and said to her; "Come on, let him use it, he had it first!"
At that point, I was just fed up with her and had raised my voice a little! I later spoke to the coordinator and told him that my little friend and I need to be in a separate room. He agreed.
I'm not going to tolerate her crap from her!! I will not stand for her putting my little buddy down like that! It might not bother him, but it really urks the hell out of me!! I will defend him and let her know that that is the wrong thing to do. The boy has reading difficulties, yes, but that does not give her the right to humiliate and embarrass him like that!!
I love this boy very much as if he were my own son, and I'm not going to tolerate her trying to humiliate and embarrass him like that. When she's around us, she will either treat him with respect or else we'll go in a separate room to read and talk!
