Hi Puter!
I cant re-call if I mentioned this or not.. but as of late with my ex now imprisoned in a nursing home from sheer stupidity, dialysis 3 times a week and certain death before 50..now comes a possible call of relief..more for me than him. He arose to say to my daughter as she visited..I hope your mom doesnt think I am in here because of what I did to her..

WOW! admittance..as much as he will ever say..but he always denied abusing me and the kids, I mean simply and totally..as if it never existed, he would say I never hit you..man..that dude was ill...Now..he is incapacitated, cannot function on his own, has many hours to think..my oh my..

A little window of closure opened up for me as much as it will ever be..at least he acknowledges his mistakes..to me that sais alot..and most people would have to be horizontal before that actually takes place..he is one of them..reality check is what I call it..

Sherri