I think I have a fantastic relationship.

We respect each other and when we would like something of the other person we ask, politely.
There are no mind games in this relationship.
We communicate, even if it is something the other may not want to hear - but what one of us feels the other needs to hear.
We adore each other and fall in love more and more each day.
We enjoy each others company. Sure we have our off days and one of us may be a cranky bastard, but we still want to be with each other.
We have been through a lot both emotionally, mentally and physically. We have come up against some some large monsters in our lives and we are still here.
We find each other horribly sexy Even with our bumps, lumps, and saggage, we still think each other is the sexiest person alive (and neither of us believe the other when we say it :P)
We are friends and are genuinely interested in each others desires and goals.
We can usually acknowledge that we aren't cranky at the person, but external things and we understand.
We have the same ideals when it comes to parenting and relationships.
We get along with the in-laws. We each have a few issues with the others parents but no more than we have with our own
We share the same future plans.

We love each other