Its been awhile but do you ever find your conversations with your mate need a back-up? do a dictaphone when he is not looking? I dont know if people honestly forget of what you spoke of or they really just wasnt listening at the time.. hasnt happen for a while between my husband and I , but I sure remember the days when I thought...mannnn I am going to write this stuff down, that too probably would be ineffective. I guess it gets better when your older...HA! I have had selective hearing on and off so I too am guilty.

Sherri