Hey Bad Puter you welcome..just true...


Wow...these are great comebacks, I am very encouraged, seems like true grit has placed an honor in the fight to stay happily married and in-love. Love is not something you feel always that is for sure, but..what goes around comes around comes around, its takes work and commitment by boths parties and its so cool to hear the the calm after the storm in this bringing a rainbow back into view...as I too lived in the engulfing sea of undertones, a Hell here on earth if you will with my own past experience...I truly dont know how I survived, by the grace of God is what I always accredit the outcome to. There are trials and tribulations with any two individuals being challenged to live together through out a lifetime...willingly at that..

I often remember my daughter and her ex, 4 years together, they were perfect in every sense of the word, and she held her virginity through the entire relationship..but the guy was partially deaf..everything was handed to him..literally, college paid,. employment to be, all free from the system..everything and he just kept blowing it...yet the two of them together were so beautiful, its a shame I never saw two more perfect people together....She eventually tired herself of his unwillingness to do something with his life, so she married someone else later in her life. You wouldnt believe...they are different as day and night, no-one can understand it...very odd, they struggle, so far so good. Life is funny like that..

I do know that I know...sometimes in life you find that one person you automatically clk with on almost every level without question..its not even about the newness wearing off, its just right there, the understanding, the intellect, the look, feel..dare I say your pulse reacting in a way you never felt before...you know that you know...but sometimes life isnt ready for where you are at to walk that extra mile just yet., never jump if your not ready, just dont find yourelf questioning it later on, make sure you cover all the loose ends per relationship. Easier said than done but definetly possible, for me...more stumbling blocks than stepping stones, ya the school of hard knocks literally.. The second half of my life has given me hope and freedom, love and support in a way I have never known..I too have been fortunate, sure wasted alot of years early on though...oh well..

Sherri