Sorry, can't tell from the handle if you are a women or a man... Chopped Liver??? LOL
Responding to your earlier post: If they are happy together wouldn't that mean they have something in common. Also, life stages are a superficial thing. What does it really mean? That you are forty and expected to have certain possessions (like a house, a car, a boat, a hefty 401 K account); a professional career/job. And if you are twenty-five you are starting out and don’t have much yet?
Why assume that because of the age difference the relationship is only physical? Plain and simple, two people like each other, enjoy each other, attracted to each other and want to be with each other. Nothing wrong with that.