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Originally Posted by Rasczak  Sounds like some real losers, I'm glad you aren't enabling them.
Not to hijack your thread, but this is a perfect example of what people don't understand about giving things to people like this. Even if you give them a tuna sandwitch or an apple, that just makes it easier to save whatever money they can scratch together for their alcohol or drugs. When you give things away to someone like this with nothing expected in return, you're enabling their lifestyle. |
Yes, you are so right!!
They either want money for alcohol or drugs, yet if they're not asking for money for that, they want it supposedly for food or other neccesities in life.
Either way, enabling is enabling, no matter how you slice it. They were parasites and hanger-ons to me.
They were welching me for money for nips, cigs and scratch tickets, as well as other stuff. And the woman was never satisfied!! You buy her one or two things and she wants even more stuff!!
Then she has the balls to go into the supermarket and ask a stranger to let her put food into her shopping cart, asking her to pay for it!! Talk about someone having balls the size of an elephant!!!!!!
But getting back to Britney, yes, the same thing applies to her as well. Anyone who helps her with ANYTHING the least little bit, they are enabling her and helping to feed her reckless lifestyle.
She's gotta take the first step, and that is getting professional help before it's too late. And she has to be WILLING to do it, and for however long it takes. None of this crap I've been hearing; "Oh. I've been in there for two days, I'm clean." Or; " Oh.I can stop anytime on my own." Or yet, this one; "Oh. I go next week next month or in the spring."
They make excuse, after excuse, after excuse and who are they kidding? Only themselves.