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Old 01-03-2008   #7 (permalink)
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Default Re: Something I always wondered about gay men

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You need to stop thinking along the lines of "Anal sex is just for homosexuals". Anal sex isn't only for gay men and those who enjoy it don't automatically become gay. You sound like you hate it, or don't like it because if you did it would mean you were gay.
You can't stop trying to pidgeon hole me as a homophobe any time you like. Nothing I've said indicates I have any problem with gay people in general.

You seem to have the idea that some significant number of hetro men, who by definition aren't turned on sexually by men, still have sex with men because they like anal sex? If this is what you're saying, again, where are you getting this info? Or do you mean they ask their female partners to use toys on them? Have you had a lot of partners ask you to do this?

Any straight guys here like receiving anal sex? I'm anticipating crickets chirping on that one.

I've never tried it, but I think its safe to assume I wouldn't like it, because the thought of penetration there disgusts me, and I have reason to believe its uncomfortable. I don't intend to find out.


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And getting a pap smear isn't the slightest bit sexually enjoyable (or even enjoyable) but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy sexual penetration. You can't compare anal sex with a prostate exam, although I have never had one.
I know I can't compare them. Its just a finger with a prostrate exam.

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I do occasionally and out of those times it has tiny aspects of enjoyment for me, but mainly it is just weird and uncomfortable. But I am not male and I am not gay
Thanks for being candid. Weird and uncomfortable sound pretty much spot on, if not an understatement. (Funny, when I say that it must be because I don't like gays.) Are you suggesting you have to be a male gay to enjoy it? Do they have a different physiology than hetros?
Eric
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