I admire people who have found a vocation. Mine is being a parent and father. That is what I've wanted to be as far back as I can remember. I work at that all the time, even when I'm doing this, or cleaning carpets, which is my livelihood. I have some side hobbies as well.

But that is work to me. Choosing what it is you want out of life and then living it.

I'm a believer that relationships are the key to life. Relationship with yourself first, your immediate family second, extended family and close friends third, (animals fall into family and freinds for me), then ones community and so on as personal relationships. Then there is of course those relationships which are necessary, as with money, school, god, a job (which, btw may be ones vocation, if so, it would then belong up higher then where I have it listed), ideals, opinions and what ever else is part of life. Then, it all comes back to family if we decide to start our own. All this requires work.