Sorry for your loss,

First you have to heal so take the time to take care of yourself. Reach out to friends and family for support and try to avoid driving them crazy with it because you will not be able to stop thinking and talking about it.

Remember just because you love someone doesn't mean that you can live with them. So when you are able to think clearly. Take some time to figure what did not work in the relationship. Not in order to make changes, by all means make changes in your life if you feel they are needed. The important thing is to use the experience to learn about yourself, what your needs are and what kind of person you would like to be around.

For example I had a relationship that did not go well for a few reasons one of them was the young lady I was dating was very jealous and I gave her plenty of reason to be jealous. So I realized that I needed someone that did not get jealous easily. Over time I came up with a list of things that I like in lover and looked for these things. I was able to find them and have been in a relationship now for 10 years 3 of those being married. Once you know what you want it becomes easier to find it.

Buenas Dias