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Old 09-26-2007   #12 (permalink)
kvsgyrl4ever
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Default Re: need advice.....straight forward and honest preferred.....

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Originally Posted by Rasczak View Post
You asked if you're bring selfish. Yes. You asked if you're wrong for not ending your current relationship. Yes.

You lie to the guy who you say is treating you well - and upset him - they guy who you say you don't love - so you can go spend time with the drunkard - the guy you say you do love. I suggest you don't participate in any relationships until you work out your own issues.
perhaps your right, but as the current boyfriend and i both came clean about our feelings, I think we are going to continue working on us before just giving up totally. This relationship is not something that i see ending just because the ex came back into my life, granted there are issues, but dealing with them openly and honestly with my current boyfriend is a step in the right direction, for both of us. As I said, he also has issues that he is working through, we just believe that we are strong together and will deal with it better together than if we were apart.
If what we agree'd on can be seen as selfish, well then yes, i guess we are.
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