another thing, i wouldnt believe someone if they were hardcore drunks if all of a sudden they arent, no way in hoohass . if you have feelings for someone else , the other must knw, its a shitty feeling not knwing about something like that, trust me i know. so be honest with the man your with now, i dont recommend being in love with a drunk although you might not be able to control that but what is there to love? whats your idea of love?