No luck yet. My girlfriend and I had a strategy session last night, and we agree with you suggestions. Apparently we are both into planning things carefully; our approach is to agree on someone we are both attracted to and to then to try to find out if she might be interested. That involves spending a lot of time around her, flirting, and bringing up sex in conversations.

There is someone that we have been interested in for a while. She has become a good friend, and there has been a good amount of flirting all around. But we haven't been bold enough to make a move. I think my girlfriend and I are nervous about misjudging her feelings toward us and going to far. While we were dallying, she found someone else that she has fallen head-over-heels for; so we might have to let her go and resolve to move a little faster next time.