No, I haven't told her everything. She doesn't know even half the things he has done. If she did, she would ban me from ever seeing this creep again, of course with good reason, and probably even send him to jail, but that, for me, would be too much, I think because I am still strangely attached to him. But the thing is, I can't avoid seeing him, because he lives close by. And he would surely ask "What's the problem?" if he notices that I am intentionally avoiding or ignoring him, and would want an explanation. I don't want to give him one, and I can't exactly disappear from his sight. I agree that it is best that I break all ties with him, but I would have to do it gradually so that he wouldn't think that something is wrong.