I am currently in a relationship that for the first time I am able to experience very open/honest communication about everything, regardless of the topic.
I am given the opportunity to experience different sexual pleasures if I wish. As he has put it, he is my guinea pig, learn learn learn...and i do!
The boyfriend was raised very openly, literally.... Although I had sexual experience before, I have yet to meet another person with as much experience as him, but not in # of partners sense, just in knowledge. I have had desires that i wouldn't bring up to other partners that he now knows of. And whether we are in the process, beginning or end of something new, if at any time i am uncomforable about the situation, he immediatly stops.
So, when the conversation one night turned into the direction of adding additional partners to our sexual life, it's one that he has done with previous partners, and that he does still think about doing with me, but for me, it's just a fantasy. It's been thought about, but it's not something that I would be comfortable with personally, and he respects that. Perhaps it's selfish on my part, but i couldn't stand to see him with another woman like that.