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Originally Posted by Charbucks I didn't want to force the discussion by bringing up my own opinions in the first post, so thanks for sharing yours, rj. What was it that ultimately made you decide against it?
I've done it a couple of times, with good friends of mine. Each time I was the "guest" - they are a couple that have been dating for a long time, and I enjoyed the experience and I would say it made me closer to both of them. However, I'm not sure how I would feel about doing it with someone that I'm actually in love with - I don't know how I would react to seeing him with another girl. |
Hope you don't mind me asking, but curiosity got the best of me. Just ignore the question if you don't like answering.
When you had your threesome with your friends, did you "interact" with both of them? If I understand correctly, you are a woman - I can understand what was in it for the guy - having two women in bed with him, but what did she get out of it?

Also, you said you wouldn't want to see your guy with another girl - what about if the opportunity came up where another guy was to join you?
Ugh. Too complicated. That's another reason why I'd never do it.