Originally Posted by Voice

In fact, there is no one official reality. All realities exist in infinite spacetime (all possibilities and outcomes exist, as QM would say). The way we create our reality is through filtering out most of those possibilities, and 'collapsing the waveform' to create our local and personal universe. We do this by choosing perspectives. Perspective creates perception (experience).

Your belief that there is some common reality to which most people subscribe is an illusion. All realities are unique. As some people choose similar perspectives, their experienced realities are similar... until they diverge again. That is not to say they are the same, and it is not to say that this makes it THE official reality. There is no absolute reality, except the entire quantum soup of possibilities, and even that is but a small piece of a larger context. (Even God has a God.)