Why do so many hide behind objectivity so often? I agree there are times when being objective is necessary. I wonder if this is the next stage of lonliness because when you can't talk about you, you must have low confidence in self awareness and self esteem. Objectivity keeps us at a distance and permits us to not reveal who we are. I think however, that this is dangerous because we never have to put ourselves out there . Could this be because we are so concerned with what we do rather than who we are? Being a person defined by what one does would require mostly objectivity. This objectivity speaks ill of americanism because we are like 'borg' people.

Females are better at telling their own story than most men I think. I am afraid though that women are becomeing too much like men and then what are we going to do? One of the unconcious attractions for men towards women is their ability to remain personal and intuitive. I say this is dangerous!

Why not speak from an autobiographical view? I understand being young and/or immature is a fact of life, but when you learn to communicate life through your own story, that helps the maturing process.

When I talk with others, I rarely speak objectively.

So, what do you think?