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Originally Posted by Jeremiah  Thanks for that it is quite similar to whats happening with me.
I got talking to her again today and we have sorted it all out. Turns out she does have feelings for me (and I for her) but she didnt want a relationship because she was moving away.
She made it clear if things were different we could stay together as real partners. I told her that I just couldnt do it anymore, I just feel real awkward being a friend with sex on the side. Similar to your situation if you do have feelings for the other person it just screws everthing up.
But lesson learnt, never in my life am I gonna do this again. Am just glad it finished up okay.
Kids, dont ever do this. Ever. |
I'm glad things are working out for you and for her, if nothing else, at least you are parting as friends, tough lessons learned, but still friends...as for not doing the friends w/benefits...I definitely learned my lesson from all that I went through, i'm a better person for it, now that I realize that I can be happy without the ex, and believe me I never thought in a million years there was anyone better or who could make me happier...I was wrong, very wrong and it just took someone who believed in me one hundred percent unconditionally.
