Well I'm a mature gamer, and so are the rest of the guys in the clan I'm in, most of use are in our 40's.

We play FPS games but given our age and experience we play in a more tactical way. We have to because some 14Yo with lighting reaction times will get the drop on us individually. We work as a team, this 14Yo will be facing 4 or 5 of us coming around the corner. I don't care how fast your reaction times are! We work as a team, we win through because of it.

There is also the social side of clan life too. This is a much over looked aspect of gaming. You can often get this from role playing games, where you can have a place to chat. Once you become a regular the others will get to know you.