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Originally Posted by viergeame  And for looks... A lot of people like to say this isn't important, but I believe you can't be happy in a relationship with someone you aren't physically attracted to as well as in other ways. |
As someone with a facial paralysis (Moebius Syndrome), I understand what you're saying with this, but beauty is also in the eye of the beholder. Blind people don't need to SEE beauty to be in love.
Beauty is in the heart.
I could go around making a big deal when people say "Smile..." around me because I can't smile. But I don't. It doesn't bother me. The "looks" issue bothers me. Not because I find fault in it, but the fact that the human brain judges someone within the first 3 seconds of meeting/seeing that person. I can't find any fault in your statement, because it's true.
I am only expressing frustration at it because it's probably the main reason why I'm still single LOL! Yes, personality has a lot to do with it, but when it comes right down to it, if you're not mostly attracted to someone, the relationship may never last. Unless you're blind, this is the case 100% of the time, IMHO.