until you bring at least some shred of proof, they will remain fantasies to everyone but those who have already decided to believe what they want to believe no matter how unfounded it may be. it's not arguing that you do, it's comforting your own fantasies.

besides it's funny how you shield yourself from being wrong by putting your god on a supernatural plane out of reach of human reasoning every time the grilling get a bit too tough. although i could bet that the day there is evidence that there is indeed a god that could grant you serenity, courage and wisdom, you'd be the first to spam the boards with "see, i told you so..."

why can't you leave the gaps empty until you really know what's in them.
you may be missing on a few fantasies that could be proven right in the future but you're certain to avoid a lot of delusions.