This is always a tough situation no matter what the age is. Like in the other posts you will know if you have an attraction to the opposite sex or not. Or whether or not you like both sexes. It will be shock to friends and family. Because you have a tendancy to lean or behave in such a manner that gives others that you are straight or not. We as a society know how Gays are treated and it worries the people that you love that you will be discriminated or harmed. And that many laws will not protect you.