you guys. it's a girl thing. marc, that is really really sad. "i started hitting on her in the 7th grade" but yet you've fucked other girls?! get it right. now kid. no clue what your name is but she'll get over him. you're 14 for fucks sake. so on this topic i say move on. find another girl that you like and start going out with her. if it's meant to be it'll happen but you can spend all your time dwelling on one girl. sides if you go out with another girl she might just realize she wants you or she might be one of those girls that wants what she can't have but again you're 14. move on. it's one girl. don't waste your time on what might've been. look at what can come to be.