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D-to-the-AVID 87 · 01-17-2005

ok, im 14 and im in grade 9. there is this girl who i like...ill call her "C". and her best friend...ill call her "x". anyways, me and c seemed to like each other, and everone in 8th grade could tell. but me and her best friend, x, didnt really get along. anyways, c always asked me to dance at dances when x wasnt around. i would be on the other side of the dance, and she'd walk all the way over with dance with me. but me and her friend still didnt get along. then it all came down to me and x getting into a fight. we became mostal enimies, i swear. it seemed to c that I was putting her in the position "me or x" like she had to choose. she ignored me after that, but i reall liked her and i wasnt gonna lose her, even if x was still in the picture. so every now and then, i said "hey" and stuff, and then would soon pick up full conversations again. anyways, on a trip to san fransisco, me and c and my 2 friends were put in the same carpool...x was sick. it was kind of awkward, even when we got stuck sitting next to each other. but by the time we got there, we were talking, laughing, making jokes, etc. on the way back, it was night, and people were falling asleep and stuff. she was whispering stuff to me, and we joked and laughed quitly. then the trip ended. we were going off to HS now. we went to a catholic school, and for girls, they had to go to an all girl high school, and guys to an all guy HS. but we still had dances together, and plays and stuff. x went to a public HS, and c to the all-girls, and me to the all-guys. so x and c would probably lose contact. anyways, homecoming came up. i asked c.....it seemed like a yes...but then she said she couldnt make it. i was bummed but I understood.
so everyone thought she was gonna ask me to there school's homecoming. i was ready. finally it was a week b4 there homecoming, and i felt like i was being tortured. i thought "is she gonna ask me or wut?!?" so my friend decided to call her and see. he said she asked another guy.......my heart sank. i felt like i was gonna puke, like i was gonna explode. i didnt understand.....why? i nkow it was her choice on who to ask...but i was almost positive it would be me. she flirted with me. she gave me subtile hints that said "we'll go out, but not till x is outta the picture." i did my waiting, only for her to ask another guy (they arent dating, they just went to homecoming together). so why did she keep me hanging on? do u think shes "saving" me for future date dances? does she like me at all? if she didnt, why did she keep me hanging?!? help plz!!!!

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D-to-the-AVID 87 Be gentle, newcomer Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 2	ahhhh plz help ok, im 14 and im in grade 9. there is this girl who i like...ill call her "C". and her best friend...ill call her "x". anyways, me and c seemed to like each other, and everone in 8th grade could tell. but me and her best friend, x, didnt really get along. anyways, c always asked me to dance at dances when x wasnt around. i would be on the other side of the dance, and she'd walk all the way over with dance with me. but me and her friend still didnt get along. then it all came down to me and x getting into a fight. we became mostal enimies, i swear. it seemed to c that I was putting her in the position "me or x" like she had to choose. she ignored me after that, but i reall liked her and i wasnt gonna lose her, even if x was still in the picture. so every now and then, i said "hey" and stuff, and then would soon pick up full conversations again. anyways, on a trip to san fransisco, me and c and my 2 friends were put in the same carpool...x was sick. it was kind of awkward, even when we got stuck sitting next to each other. but by the time we got there, we were talking, laughing, making jokes, etc. on the way back, it was night, and people were falling asleep and stuff. she was whispering stuff to me, and we joked and laughed quitly. then the trip ended. we were going off to HS now. we went to a catholic school, and for girls, they had to go to an all girl high school, and guys to an all guy HS. but we still had dances together, and plays and stuff. x went to a public HS, and c to the all-girls, and me to the all-guys. so x and c would probably lose contact. anyways, homecoming came up. i asked c.....it seemed like a yes...but then she said she couldnt make it. i was bummed but I understood. so everyone thought she was gonna ask me to there school's homecoming. i was ready. finally it was a week b4 there homecoming, and i felt like i was being tortured. i thought "is she gonna ask me or wut?!?" so my friend decided to call her and see. he said she asked another guy.......my heart sank. i felt like i was gonna puke, like i was gonna explode. i didnt understand.....why? i nkow it was her choice on who to ask...but i was almost positive it would be me. she flirted with me. she gave me subtile hints that said "we'll go out, but not till x is outta the picture." i did my waiting, only for her to ask another guy (they arent dating, they just went to homecoming together). so why did she keep me hanging on? do u think shes "saving" me for future date dances? does she like me at all? if she didnt, why did she keep me hanging?!? help plz!!!!