But what's to happen after that. Do you want a tombstone, or just for someone to scatter your ashes somewhere that means something to you.

I think that's my approach. To send my loved ones out on a journey, that meant a the world to me. Just to let them know a little more about me, than what they've seen. I'd rather have them remembering me for what i were, than having them facing a tombstone with my name on it. That's not me.